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My Perfectly Selfish Reasons for Being a Breast Milk Donor

My Perfectly Selfish Reasons for Being a Breastmilk Donor

By now you’ve probably seen me humble bragging about being a breast milk donor for Calgary’s NorthernStar Mothers Milk Bank. I’m not as prolific a donor as my pal The Monarch Mommy, but I will be bringing my second donation down to the bank when we get back from holidays in January. My first donation, collected over the my first two months postpartum, was 5005 ml (170 oz).

Donated Breast Milk ~ Maman Loup's Den

The thing is, I feel kind of sheepish when I get accolades for my generous donation. People tell me I’m so generous, so selfless, such wonderful person. The truth is, I donate my breast milk for 99.99% selfish reasons. 

1- It’s free.

With two kids and a mortgage, it’s not easy to find extra cash nor extra time to donate to worthy causes. Pumping my milk only takes a maximum of 30 minutes. I don’t have to do it every day, I can do it in my pajamas. It doesn’t cost me anything. I might not be giving cash, but I still get the warm tingly feeling of a let down and of giving.

2- It helps me write reviews.

I am pretty much exclusively breastfeeding Little Miss Cub, and don’t need much more than a manual pump to make a few bottles on the off-chance she’ll take one while I’m out. In order to generate content and traffic for this blog, I reviewed two electric breast pumps. I pumped my milk donations with those pumps, but it wasn’t just good for babies: it was good for business.

3- It’s a relief.

There’s nothing like going to bed with empty breasts. Being a girl of very small bust, I am very much unaccustomed to sleeping on anything but my pillows full of feathers. A good draining before bed means a much more comfortable send off to dreamland for this Mama.

4- It’s painless.

I’ve donated blood ever since I was old enough to do so (though not since I’ve had kids). Donating blood takes up a good chunk of time, and it does come with a bit of discomfort. (I passed out one time, and the time I tried to donate plasma was a disaster.) Plus, while you do have to answer a list of questions when you are first approved for milk donation, every single time you go in to donate blood, you have to answer a series of questions about your sex life whose most honest answers are probably: “I sure hope not.”

5- It feels good.

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I’m proud to donate my breast milk. It makes me feel warm and fuzzy. I thrive on approval. I was the teacher’s pet. Doing something good, and having others acknowledge that good… that’s all good for me.

Unselfish reasons to donate your breast milk:

  • Donor milk “help[s] protect the most medically fragile babies against life-threatening illnesses.” (source)
  • “The bioactive components of donor milk, including cytokines, hormones, and enzymes, optimize the health and development of babies, and are unmatched by any commercial formula.” (source)
  • “Human breast milk-fed infants in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) have fewer severe infections, less necrotizing enterocolitis (NEC) and a reduction in colonization by pathogenic organisms.” (source)
  • Research supports “a decreased length of hospital stay for babies fed expressed human breast milk.” (source)
  • “Donor breast milk… provides a tremendous relief [to the parents of preterm infants] knowing that their infant can still receive human breast milk.” (source)

Canadian Breast Milk Donation Resources

 

—> NorthernStar Mothers Milk Bank (located in Calgary)

—> NorthernStar Drop off in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan

—> NorthernStar Drop off in Yorkton, Saskatchewan

—> NorthernStar Drop off in Winnipeg, Manitoba

Full list of current NorthernStar Milk Drops in Alberta & Saskatchewan

Public Mothers’ Milk Bank – Héma Québec

The Rogers Hixon Ontario Human Milk Bank

BC Women’s Provincial Milk Bank

If you are not able to donate your milk via one of the four Canadian milk banks listed above (it’s a big country!), you can find a chapter of Human Milk 4 Human Babies near you!

If you want to advocated for a Human Milk Bank in your area, take the cue from Saskatoon Breastfeeding Matters, and write to your MLA!

Have you been a donor or a recipient of human milk?

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8 responses to “My Perfectly Selfish Reasons for Being a Breast Milk Donor”

  1. I had a preemie and had more than enough milk to donate but I just never signed up for it. I did donate some through Human milk 4 human babies. My next baby I want to plan on donating so I can work myself up for it because I know how valuable that liquid gold is! I just need to find outbhowbto get some free pumps!

  2. […] I’ve mentioned before, I donate my breast milk to the Northern Star Milk Bank. I’m not a prolific donor by any means, but since it’s […]

  3. […] fault too. I donate about 5L a month to the Rogers Hixon Ontario Human Milk Bank, all thanks to this lovely article by Lindsay. And this manual pump is all I need – plus it’s easy to pack, doesn’t require […]

  4. […] from eight to ten ounces when I pump in the afternoon, and all of it goes into the freezer for the Northern Star Mothers Milk Bank.On Mondays and Wednesdays, the clock starts ticking as soon as I sprint in the door from dropping […]

  5. […] With my second, I had a manual pump and an electric pump, and since she also wasn’t into taking bottles, I became a committed donor to my local mothers’ milk bank. […]

  6. […] the boys were in the NICU, I was pretty gung-ho about pumping. When my daughter was a baby I was a milk donor and pumped once a day, so I had a pumping bra and a portable […]

  7. Beatriz

    I’m a first time mom still breastfeeding our 11 month old daughter. When my milk came in I needed to pump/use a Haaka to get some relief so at 2 weeks postpartum I contacted the closest milk bank, after all we only had so much space in our freezer for human milk and so many babies could benefit from my extra.
    I have to say that I’ve never felt such important and loved as in my interview and tests at the milk bank, only that 5 star experience has been enough to keep me motivated with pumping. I’m still donating even though not as much as in the beginning and my milk now is mainly for studies rather than feeding babies as I’m too far postpartum.

    1. Lindsay

      Beatriz! This comment made me so happy! The 5-star description is spot on.

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